Plumbing frustrations

With being a homeowner, suddenly you don’t have anyone to call when stuff goes wrong except for the repairman. So I can’t tell you the delight that I felt when I saw that my water main was leaking. Joy of joys. Thankfully my seller Realtor rocks and got a plumber for us. He simply tightened the pipe, told us that our water is very hard, and that it would need to be replaced in the near’ish future. And it still leaks.

Next, we have no hot water. Our water heater keeps throwing a circuit, and the plumber that was here said “Sorry, I’m not an electrician.”

Yeah. So we get cold showers. The kids have been bathing by swimming at the pool. *snicker*

And, oh glorious day, our washing machine pukes up water out of the floor drain of the utility room. It’s really pleasant to have nasty black water and what I’ll hope is merely wads of lint (no, it’s not poo folks) regurgitated onto the floor.

I don’t know who set this next little mess up, but it’s probably the dumbest thing I have seen: The dryer exhaust blows out a tube, just like any other house, but someone decided to tie in the bathroom fan’s exhaust into the same pipe, so now the dryer vents into the bathroom, so I have to run the bathroom fan while the dryer runs to avoid moisture build-up in it. I need to get a pipe cap to cap it off. Whoever did it was really pro: They tied the flexible hoses on with cable ties and duct tape. *eye roll*

Oh yeah, and our dishwasher doesn’t work, and I’ll assume that it’s new, because there was a manual in the cabinet above it. So we’re scrubbin’ by hand until we can afford to have someone out to give it a look.

Who chops the telephone off at the line into the house and drywalls over it? The previous owners, that’s who. So we had to have AT&T come out and install a whole new line from the box (which is actually better for our DSL) then tie it in to our existing wiring.

Aside from these complaints, the house has been absolutely fabulous. The boys are enjoying their own bedrooms, we’re enjoying the added privacy of a master bath (even with the cold showers), and the extra space is really good for everyone. Did I mention it’s 3000 square feet? Yeah, it’s pretty nice. Not looking forward to the electric bill, though.

There are also several kids in the neighborhood that are near my kids’ ages, ranging in ages from five to 15. It has been a godsend to have the kids out of my hair while I try to get stuff done, and the neighborhood kids are enjoying having the additions to their group. We live on a dead-end street, so there’s no through traffic to worry about; the traffic consists of the neighbors, and they know to expect the kids around in the streets. Of course the kids know to get out of the street when a car comes, but it’s still nice to know that there’s a low possibility of dorks racing down the road running the kids over. The neighbor adults are all really nice, and we have two police officers: one across the street from me, one just around the corner. The one around the corner works in our city, and he will occasionally sit outside his house while on duty and cruises the neighborhood a lot.

Overall I am more than thrilled with our new house, and I can’t wait until it’s all set up! :)

T-minus two days

I just have to talk about how excited I am about buying our first house. Sorry to gush, but it’s one of those huge life things, yanno? And guess what? It’s my blog, and I can post what I want. So there. :P I am currently at my mother’s house to borrow her truck, then we’re loading the truck tomorrow to donate some things to Goodwill, then loading it up with stuff to move. Then Friday is closing, we start hauling stuff over, and the adventure begins! It’s going to be 100 degrees, it’s going to be miserable work (have you ever moved a piano??), but it’s going to be all good in the end! I just gotta say…. WOOHOO! :) I’m watching the clock like a kid waiting to get out of school on the last day.

Buying a house

So, like a lot of people, we’ve wanted to own a house for quite a while. We’ve been looking at several houses in the Eureka area, but none fit our needs. But finally, our dream is coming to fruition! This is the house that we have signed a contract on, and if all goes as planned (you know, financial stuff, etc), we will be closing on July 22nd. Hooray! Allow me to give you a virtual tour… Just please don’t tell MARIS that I borrowed their photos.

Living room

The kitchen

The kitchen

Dining room

Partially finished basement

Basement door

Basement bedroom (to the right)

Back deck

My kiddo likes chores?!

Who likes chores? I mean really. Cleaning and stuff is really boring, especially when you’re little. However, I have found one thing that makes him interested in doing chores, and is now actually asking me for more! No, it’s not some book I bought… It’s a website. Chore Wars makes doing chores  into an RPG (role playing game). There are some built-in tasks to give you an idea of how to make them, and you can add your own. You can even use it for the workplace.

Each task is a quest, of sorts, and you earn experience points based on the chore. Laundry is 40 points, taking out the trash is 10 points. Of course, you can modify these as you wish, and you can even give partial points for doing partial tasks… My son got 10 points on laundry for flipping it from the washer to the dryer. You can also leave notes on the task, of why it was partial, or anything else. You can also create quests, which are one-shot tasks that aren’t normally done, such as unloading the camping gear from the car trunk.

Along with experience points, you also earn gold and loot. Laundry earns 1-40 gold pieces, you have a 25% chance of finding loot, such as a lost sock or a bubbly potion, and you have a 50% chance of encountering a soap elemental or a water elemental. You must defeat this monster, if you encounter it, before getting your loot, but you always get the gold.

As you gain points, you level up. Based on the ability of the task, such as dexterity for chores that require precision work, such as dusting, washing dishes, etc, or strength for chores that require lifting or otherwise heavy work, your person will level up in that particular category. Rangers require dexterity, as they use bow and arrows, but warriors require strength to swing a sword.

So what’s the point of getting gold and points? You can trade in your gold or loot for privileges, trade in loot for prizes, etc. For cleaning the bedroom, a task I created, there is a 50% chance of earning the Trophy of clean bedrooms. This could be traded for, say, an hour on a video game. Within the game you have the ability to “spend” or “use” and make notes. Is can be also be used in the workplace, by making tasks such as filing, copying, or whatever, then whoever levels up or gets gold or what have you will receive something special, such as a free lunch.

Sure, it’s a hokey way to get tasks done, but they do get done. And if it’s fun, with tangible rewards, they are more likely to do the boring work. :)

A Facebook update from a friend:

My roof is leaking, my electricity and gas is scheduled to be cut off on Tuesday, my phone is due at about the same time, and still outta work at [a restaurant]. Crap.

As I read all of the replies of well-wishes and sympathizers from others as broke as her, I consider all that we’ve heard. The recession was supposed to be over, so Uncle Sam says, last year. I do believe that we are beyond recession, and are in a depression, which is generally defined as a recession that lasts over a year. I see friends’ updates of worries about mergers, their companies’ losing contracts, businesses closing, and downsizing. People with legitimate disabilities are denied any kind of insurance or financial help. People are stuck in low-paying, dead-end jobs, because they are grateful at this point to even have one. Even my mother, who makes pretty decent money, is having financial worries about her house payments, and has lost a lot in stocks and such.

It’s all pretty depressing, isn’t it? What really gets me though is seeing people who complain bitterly about money in one breath, and talk about their shiny new thing in the next. Really? You can’t afford to pay bills, but you can afford to dine out and buy new stuff? I guess I am guilty as charged, to an extent. We do go out to eat once or twice a month, and generally the destination is Taco Bell or Del Taco, because they have vegan burritos (their beans contain no lard). Yet I see others spending much more than that. How? Priorities, I suppose. A new thing is much more important than electricity. Am I talking about you? I don’t know, if the shoe fits… I’m not talking about any one person in particular, just to make you feel a bit better. But I digress.

The silver lining: We are learning to do more with less. We are learning to downsize and conserve. We are learning new ways of being self-sufficient, such as the upsurge in home made (and often upcycled) things. We garden. We are learning to prioritize. I have blogged about this before, but it tends to be a recurring theme in not only my life, but many friends’ lives as well.

I’m done ranting now. As you were.

Depression sucks.

So I have finally come up out of my mental hole. I have been dealing with depression for many, many years, since my early teens. I just didn’t want to come to terms with it. I have always been against “pop a pill and feel better” mantras that the big drug companies throw at us with every commercial, but this funk had gone on long enough.

I got to a point in my life that I just couldn’t do anything but sit on the couch and mess with my computer. It’s not that I wanted to be a lazy bum and ignore the house work, but I physically could not do it. It was like my brain was telling my body that it was… I don’t know… disabled or something. Laundry only got done when it was absolutely required,  such as my husband wouldn’t tell me he was out of socks and he would come home and I’d have to deal with the stench of his two-day-old socks he was wearing, so I’d have to find out the hard way that I needed to run a load. I’d only vacuum if someone came over, which was very rare, because I didn’t want anyone to see my messy house. Which made me more depressed.

I didn’t want to spend any time with my child. He is hyperactive, and would get on my nerves the entire time he was home. Rather than entertain him, I would just have him go play with his toys (hey, that’s what we bought them for, right?) or make him take a nap. That’s no good for him. There was a point that every one of us would be staring at a computer screen for hours at a time, because no one wanted to deal with anything else. Times were grey, indeed.

I felt like the Pristiq wind-up woman. I’d have to gather all of my strength just to get up and make supper. I’d rather fall asleep on the couch watching TV than go to bed… Wait, doesn’t everyone? ;)

Finally I’d had enough of it. I obviously wasn’t “getting over it.” I made a psych appointment. I told him that I felt like the little wind-up doll, and he said “Oh hey, here take these pills!” (No, not Pristiq.) And you know what? I can now do things. I can just think of something that needs to be done, and I actually have the energy to get up and do it right then, rather than having to gear myself up to do something menial, like taking out the trash. I have become a den leader for my son’s Cub Scouts group. I am actively searching for a job. I am more interested in visiting with my friends, and when I see them, they say that they see a very good change in me.

If you are in the same boat as I was, please do make an appointment to see a doctor. There’s even pay-based doctors to help you. These may have a two month waiting list, but hey, all you have is time, right? You’re not a superhero, you can’t always just pick yourself up and fly off. Sometimes you really do need help from someone. Take the first step and make a call, just like I finally convinced myself to do.

Nine year anniversary

So my husband and I have been married for nine years. We’ve had our ups and downs, good times and bad, but here we still are, with no end in sight. :)

To mark the occasion, I shall repost a video that I made a couple of years ago.

Music: DJ Sammy – Heaven (Candlelight version)
Video: Myself, starring my own Second Life avatar, as well as my hubby’s. Yes, it is difficult to record yourself. ;)

Halp! I fix computers. Even yours.

Okay, so I hate to ask for help. However, I know the power of the interwebz and I know that people read my stuff sometimes. So here’s the deal. I live in St. Louis Metro East, Belleville area. I have a degree and certification in computer repair and networking. I’m in dire need of money, so I am offering you a service in exchange for some. For $50 an hour I fix your computer. I come to you, within reason… I don’t want to go any farther in Missouri than, say, within the 270/255 loop (trying to keep money in my pocket, you understand), no farther east than Shiloh/Scott… I don’t know anything farther out than that, not more than 20 miles please. I don’t have AFB clearance. I can even work in an office, I have nifty polos and khakis, so I won’t look too much like a broke bum. Sorry, I don’t have a tax ID (or any other tax stuff, for that matter), so a receipt will likely be useless to you, but I can make a purdy one on your printer if you really need it.

Here’s what I do (PC, I’m not too great at Mac but I can usually figure it out):

  • Computer hardware and software repair, including virus and spyware removal, upgrading your old system, etc
  • Networking (wiring can be difficult, but I can do some)
  • Teaching for general computer usage, specific software, and gadgets (including making your iPod work with your computer, cell phones, etc)
  • Graphic design
  • I’m personable and nice. :)

My husband, who works many hours, can do repairs on electronics if they aren’t too messed up… soldering and such. He’s pretty good at that type of thing, but is overworked and underpaid and craves his time off… He’s going to cost a lot more, and is only available on Sundays and certain Saturdays.

Sound good to you? You know you want your computer to run better. You know you need that wireless connection set up. Call me. 314-898-5556. I accept cash and PayPal.

Now if only I could get my cat to run in the hamster wheel.

Roti: Indian flat bread

I have often lamented my severe lack of naan (Indian flatbread) when cooking Indian meals, such as my delish vegetable korma. So today, when telling an Indian friend about my plans to make chana masala (chickpeas with tomato and onion) this evening, he suggested that I make roki. I did a little research, and he showed me the video, and it came out fabulous! Here is the recipe (use one cup of water, not 3/4), and I am embedding the video for a demonstration on the technique used. This is similar to making tortillas, and is a perfect side for any Indian dish. Traditionally, they don’t use silverware and use bread instead for scooping up food out of a bowl.

Hooray for… toilet paper?

Okay, so maybe I am weird and I get excited about strange things. Judge me as you wish. But I almost always purchase recycled paper products, especially paper towels and toilet paper. Why kill a tree to clean up your messes? So, when I was shopping at Aldi’s, I got probably over-ecstatic about this find: Ever-Green toilet tissue. Yeah, I may be crazy. But give me a moment to describe the paper of dirty deeds:

  • It is 100% recycled, 40% post-consumer (that’s your old office paper, properly sanitized, of course).
  • It comes in a 100% recycled/recyclable paperboard box, which is more than I can say for just about every other recycled toilet tissue, which typically comes wrapped in plastic.
  • And the box itself is innovative!
    It has a TP dispenser built in, like the “fridge packs” of canned soda.
    It has a built-in handle, like the canned soda packs, so no need for a bag to carry it.
    It has a hole on the side to pop in your empty cardboard TP rolls for convenient recycling, rather than them going into your regular bathroom trash.

As I said… Maybe I’m a wee bit crazy. But small things like this can really help reduce our landfill waste. The company also makes boxes of paper towels in the same fashion.